Considering divorce is never an easy decision. Whether you’re dealing with ongoing conflict, emotional distance, or a sense that your relationship has changed over time, it’s natural to feel uncertain about what to do next. Divorce can bring a mix of emotions, from fear and sadness to relief and hope, and navigating these feelings can be overwhelming.
At Brookhills Legal Services in Grand Rapids, we know how tough this process can be, both emotionally and legally. That’s why we’re here to help. Our team will guide you through every step, from exploring your options to resolving property division, child custody, and financial issues.
Take Time to Reflect
Clarify Your Reasons
Before making any legal or emotional decisions, take time to reflect on why you’re considering divorce. Is it a reaction to recent stress, or are there long-standing issues that don’t seem to improve? Being honest with yourself about the root causes can help you make a more informed and thoughtful choice.
Consider Counseling or Therapy
Talking to a licensed therapist—on your own or with your spouse—can offer valuable perspective. Therapy can improve communication, help you gain clarity, and sometimes even lead to reconciliation. If divorce ends up being the right path, counseling can also help you process your emotions and prepare for the transition ahead.
Understand the Legal Process in Michigan
Michigan is a no-fault divorce state, which means you don’t have to prove wrongdoing—just that the marriage has broken down beyond repair. Either spouse can file, and there’s a 60-day waiting period (or 180 days if children are involved). Understanding these basics can help you better anticipate the process and timeline.
Preparation is key. Start gathering important documents, such as:
Tax returns and pay stubs
Bank account and credit card statements
Property deeds and mortgage information
Retirement and investment accounts
Debts and loan information
Having this information ready can make your first consultation with a divorce attorney much more productive.
Secure Your Financial Future
Divorce often comes with significant financial adjustments, making it essential to take a clear, honest inventory of your income, expenses, assets, and debts. Understanding your financial landscape—what you own and what you owe—will empower you and your attorney to pursue a fair settlement. Consider key factors such as child support, spousal support, and the division of property when planning for the future.
Other important considerations include:
Updating your will and estate plans to reflect new circumstances
Reviewing and revising beneficiary designations on accounts and insurance policies
Establishing a realistic budget to maintain financial stability post-divorce
Consulting a financial advisor to help plan for long-term goals, such as retirement
By thoughtfully preparing for these possibilities—even if you're still weighing your options—you can ensure a smoother transition should you decide to move forward. Planning ahead is your first step toward stability and peace of mind.
Consult a Divorce Attorney Early
You don’t have to be certain about divorce to consult with a lawyer. In fact, many individuals meet with a divorce attorney simply to understand their rights and gain clarity on what the process entails. At Brookhills Legal Services, our compassionate and experienced family law attorneys provide judgment-free consultations in Grand Rapids, allowing you to ask questions, explore your options, and make informed decisions.
Whether you’re gathering information or preparing to take the next step, partnering with an experienced divorce attorney can offer the guidance and confidence you need during this challenging time. We’re here to provide thoughtful support, legal advice, and a clear path forward.
Contact us online or call (616) 202-3988 today to schedule a consultation and take the first step toward a more stable future.